Caliente first time questions

We are visiting Caliente for the first time in late November. Seeing as this is our first real nude experience we’ve decided to stay in a hotel off site and visit on a Friday afternoon and evening rather than stay there. We are definitely not interested in any type of swinging but are really hoping to see some action and maybe have some fun of our own. It sounds like the conversation pool is the place to see things happen. What type of activity can we expect to see here on a Friday evening? How late will we need to stick around to see any action? One concern that we have is that by not having a room on site that we won’t be able to take care of our needs if we get turned on. Is there any appropriate place for us to actually have sex, or will we be stuck driving back to our hotel? Also, is it appropriate for my wife to bring her vibrator in a bag with our towels? Sorry for all the rookie questions, I just don’t want our expectations to be unrealistic or for us to do anything inappropriate.

We have been there a few times and are headed there this Thursday - Sunday. My advice is to not worry too much and enjoy what comes. There is an official policy against public sex but it happens. The conversation pool or heated hot tub next next to it are usually where it will happen. There is no schedule and everything depends on who is there. You can always start the action yourself and usually no one will bother you. Bring whatever toys you want. It's a pretty easy going place and no one will be shocked as it has probably been seen and done before. Bottom line, relax and enjoy yourself.