I wouldn't take anything Dee Ebersbacher says without a grain of salt. She registered multiple usernames here all of which mention how much they love that website she kept mentioning. Obvious conclusion is she works for the website as a paid promoter or owns it. Either way, totally fake testimonials.
Cafe Desire:
www.cafedesire.com
This is the best site that we've found. Very few fakes. Canada focused. We've met more couples on this site than on all the other ones that we've tried combined.
Right now it's about $40 for a Lifetime membership.
Currently there are Over 17,000 members.
Only website I could find Iranian couple were Swingerlifestyle and SDC but only by couples from swinger website we had sex.
Isn't it easy to just go to a local or regional swingers party or night club? I went to Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale a few times on a trip to the States and to L'Auberge Le 1082 in Montreal on a trip to Canada and they were awesome experiences. Far better and easier to meet the right people for me than every interaction on any of the adult dating websites I've been on over the years. Local swingers parties have been a mixed experience but mostly a good experience both at home and abroad. Same with nudist beaches (only rare encounters but great when they happen because you don't expect it when you're only heading to the beach for some sun) All in all it cums down to ... right time ... right place ... right people ... and ...
We really like https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/ they have a great match system and everyone seems really friendly.
S xx