Will Home still be the Same

[Jerry&Kelly]

When we were there in July it seemed like they were investing a bit of time and effort into the resort. We had no issues with liquor shortages. We r motel 6 folks so the rooms are not a problem. The food is not that bad. We've been to all inclusive that were much worse. Get off the resort a few times a week and eat out. The Restaurants off the resort are not expensive. Plus seeing a bit of Jamaica is not a bad thing. Breakfast is better on the resort than at my house for sure the grills for lunch are always excellent. I've always found something good at the buffet at night. We all put quite a bit of stress on the resort with all of our partying and playing! So try to understand that if the activities that go on At Hedo were going on at Couples or Sandals then those resorts may show signs of wear as well. We had friends that stayed at the Grand Palladium last July and they had hot water and power issues. It's Jamaica not America. They have power issues. I believe hedo will remain the same and we are still going to be going until we are broke. Hope you all will be too!!

[CopNkitten]

Theres no place like home.
Nuff said.
Cop..

[Sexy'nRed]

Hey gotta add my two cents. I met several single very respectful single men and when I said no it was all good. If he is a creep then the rest of us look out for each other. Our awesome single friend (just friend) without benifits is returning with us in about 10 days and he hopes to have a awesome time and possibly hook up. ffm. fmm.
This is one very nice, clean, respectful, descrete person. We met at hedo in 2011 and like us can't wait to go back and have a vaca of our dreams. It can and does happen at hedo. Ladies sometimes there is a creepy guy but I think for the most part the single guys are not. To pushy is a turn off for me.

When we were there in August there were at least one of each... this one guy was really creepy, and not just in the hot tub. But we had a great day with a group of people were the single guy was not only cool but also the life of the party. And trust me, he got plenty of attention and fun, and not just because of the vodka infused whipped cream that he happily shared.

[Westny]

When we were there in August there were at least one of each... this one guy was really creepy, and not just in the hot tub. But we had a great day with a group of people were the single guy was not only cool but also the life of the party. And trust me, he got plenty of attention and fun, and not just because of the vodka infused whipped cream that he happily shared.

THANK YOU for defending the non-creepy single guys! Thanks to this forum, on my trip in the summer I had an AWESOME time and was welcomed warmly. That is why I am hooked. I've been around the world and Hedo was the place I wish I'd discovered years ago.

Please know that I am not trying to be a "know-it-all" expert on being a single guy at Hedo, but I had SUCH a great time and am just tring to help out others in my position.

Do not try too hard. If couples are interested they will approach you for threesome or "hot wife" scenarios. The pushy people stood out negatively.

Take the time to read the other posts on do's and dont's, and if you are painfully shy and introverted Hedo is NOT a good fit for you.

Oh, and do NOT be a "clinger." Know the difference between people being casually friendly and people who are interested in a more intimate encounter.

Feel free to PM me if you have concerns as a single guy going to H2. People helped me and I am happy to return the kindness.

Is it January yet??? ;-)

[Jamaica Joe]

Good advice for single guys Westny! The trouble many single guys who are "Hedo Virgins", or first-timers, have is they somehow get the mistaken impression that going to Hedo will be like walking onto a porn movie set in which they are one of the male "actors". Because single guys are plentiful and in far less demand than single females, we must not be pushy or aggressive, we must be outgoing and able to make small talk (without getting drunk first, which is a turn-off), and we must look halfway decent naked (if necessary, diet and go to the gym for few weeks or months before your Trip).

Getting drunk is the big problem for some single guys..."free" booze at an all-inclusive resort and being on a tropical vacation obviously contributes alot to drunkeness. But it makes some guys (single and married) act like real jackasses around and towards women.

[PeasnapodX2]

Jamaica Joe you said it well. I agree a new drunk single guy or married has issues and are found out very quickly. We all are not perfect for sure. It may be a good idea to catch that guy as soon as possible when no longer drunk and inform him of it. I may even have security do the talking for me. Who needs more drama.

Drunk men can be asses with and without clothing.....LOL

[Heman]

Good to hear! our return trip keep getting kicked back. We are now hoping for Summer 2013. Keep our fingers crossed!

[W&K]

@ Westny - I agree. Big difference between a single and a single creepy guy. Read my trip report from last year at Hedo, funny single guy story in that, lol. Finally had to tell him off, he just didn't get the hints to stay away from our group of friends.

We're with you on that one mac_r_a ... We've only met one who creeped us out. He pretty much pushed his way into our group of three couples and we all go up and left. However... I've also met some single guys who fit right into the group dynamic, and had the nice-guy skills and patience to let things develop. Works well when done right... Kind of seductive.

[mac_r_a]

We're with you on that one mac_r_a ... We've only met one who creeped us out. He pretty much pushed his way into our group of three couples and we all go up and left. However... I've also met some single guys who fit right into the group dynamic, and had the nice-guy skills and patience to let things develop. Works well when done right... Kind of seductive.

Here is our 'bad' experience with the creepy single guy (yet I still would not want to exclude all singles, cause most are great)

There were over a dozen of us there and one couple was tucked in the corner under the bar having sex and several couples were sitting around the table and a lot more were just standing and chatting. One guy stood up to speak to his wife and he went to sit back down and some guy was there behind him right beside the couple having sex. We all had no idea how he even got there, no one saw him sneak in, and that’s what he did. He was not a small guy, he was a big guy. So we just said whatever, thinking he would join us. He never said a word he sat there and literally starred at the couple having sex. We all kept our eye on him to make sure he didn’t touch her. Finally he was SOOOO creepy I had to go over and make them aware of him being there for over ½ hour watching them, so they stopped. So we decided to get out of there.

Then the next day a bunch of our friends were in the splash pool instead of our 'normal' table in the pool, so I commented that we were partying there today and the told me to look in “our spot”. There was creepy big guy down there by himself waiting for us and pouting that we were all up there. We figured we would wait him out. Another couple joined him and they appeared to chat. Once he went to the bathroom we all grabbed out stuff and ran to the corner spot. He looked very sad when he came back. He started to edge his way over little by little. Apparently he was married but his wife didn’t fly so he came by himself, that’s what he told the other couple. I warned the group next to us about him. So we got out our games and started partying hard. We did body shots off all the guys and then it was the girls turn. In the middle of it he tried to come over and one of the girls from the other group took her floaty and blocked off the entrance to the corner and when we say what was going on we all hopped down. Throughout the afternoon he tried 3 times to “sneak in” without even speaking a word and he was told to leave each time, that it was a game for couples only. It’s not his appearance or that he was single, he was just damn CREEPY. You know what I mean. So then he got out of the pool and stood right outside the pool in the corner only a foot away from us. He was staring and creeping everyone out and we were playing a lot of games and having Hedo fun. So then some of the guys stood up on the side of the pool to look at the clouds for a few minutes with their junk hanging out and he turned, but still didn’t leave. He wasn’t only not getting the hint, he was pissing me off. So I went over and asked him if he spoke English (since I had yet to hear him speak) and he said yes. So I told him he was following us for days and with all due respect he needed to go the fuck away. So he finally got the hint and left. I hate doing that, but he went above and beyond, which is rare. So we went back to fun.

[CopNkitten]

Someone should have gone pirate on his ass.
Cop..

[mac_r_a]

Someone should have gone pirate on his ass.
Cop..

I kinda did, lol. That is not normally like me and I let it go too long. But he was making people in our group very uncomfortable for days so as a group host I feel I had to do and say something. I can't beleive he didn't get all the hints that were being dropped and he was outright told by several in our group it was a private thing going on. Finally I just had to tell him to f off. He did get the hint after that though. Only saw him once more in the two days we were there after that, and it was in the dining room and as soon as he saw me he turned the other way. I did not necessarily want him to leave the whole pool area, just not stand a foot away from us and stare at us for hours.

[CopNkitten]

You gota do what you gota do sexy
Cop..

[gemar1003]

Counting down the days to our Hedo visit. Hoping for a clear run with no problems in the Hot tub this time Thanks for the comments. Out of interest has any of the Hurricane damage in Jamaica been in the Negril Hedo area.

[mac_r_a]

Hedo was not damaged by the hurricane.

[Face Down]

While the majority of single guys at Hedo are awesome and fun to hang out with there has always been "that guy" running around the resort. At Hedo III one year I think we were up to Creepy Guy #7 just in one week. I have to tell you all about the latest creepy guy from a couple of weeks ago. So I guess he was staying at Breezes and him and his buddy told their wife's they were going golfing, but came over to Hedo on a day pass. The guy at one point I guess was having a blast but the alcohol and sexual energy got to him by the end of the afternoon and he soon forgot how to act. Some of the Amigo's were playing beer pong in the pool and I guess the guy started jacking off right in the pool right behind (within inches) two of the girls. I was in the ocean with about 20 other Amigos and we noticed this guy high-tailing it to the water with T (a female Amigo) chasing and yelling at him. The guy passed me and went straight out to the ropes, I guess he was thinking of swimming back to Breezes??? So I get out of the water to talk to T and her comes her husband M and I could tell he was pissed. Security also showed at the same time and I intercepted M and told him to let security handle it. By this time I think the guy figured out that he retreated right into a group of about 20 people that knew and were friends with the girl that he pissed off and started to freak out and exited the water right to the security guard probably thinking for his own safety. Here is the funny part....and as we Amigos say "You can't make this shit up!!" By this time security had a hold of him and was leading him back up to the pool area I guess to get his clothes. Fifty had come down and was assisting in his removal. As we all had the back story now of what he did some were yelling at him, calling him creeper and to go home. I guess in all the excitement, fear and drunkeness, the guy shit himself right there on the beach. The security guard kinda freaked at first (above his pay grade I bet he was thinking) but had the sense to lead him to the outside shower so he could get cleaned up. By this time there was many staff around and they walked him directly to the lobby and booted his ass out....while the whole pool cheered his removal That....is not something you will see at Hedo everyday!!