It was our first trip and the short of it is we had a great time and will be going back. What about the details. Well first let me provide you with our expectations. Before we went my wife and I both did research and what we got from the information we found was that Hedo's reputation as a wicked place where sex was everywhere was undeserved. We both expected that public sex and swinging were going to be present but would be secretive. Other expectations were that it would be friendly and the facilities clean but and nice but not spectacular. Our own expectations between each other was that we would likely watch if anything happened in front of us (we are both voyeurs) but that it was not likely that we would participate. There was even some question as to whether or not my wife would be comfortable being nude in the great outdoors with other people around.

The reality… Both day and night there were ample displays of sex. During the day sex went no further than oral. But at night full intercourse was easily found. But it was never lewd or disgusting. It was in each case very sexy and tasteful. At least we thought so. Just to be clear it wasn’t like it was always going on. During the day and in the early evening it was less prevalent. For example, one day we were hanging out (literally) with several couples that we had meet and played with and I looked at my wife and said hey we have body paint. I went and got it came back and started painting my wife with this edible body paint. Of course all the girls we were with and some that decided to join in had to have a taste. It got really wild, I got pushed out of the way and the women just had a good time. It was amazing and very playful and fun. It was one of the best moments of my life. We met several new friends and I got many thank you’s from the guys and girls for my, should I say brilliant, idea.

At night things get more racy well not really it just progresses to intercourse and things getting completed rather than just foreplay, maybe that is fourplay at hedo. Sometimes it happens with your spouse sometimes with someone else’s spouse. All depends on what you and the people around you are willing to do. Typically people talk and flirt before getting to it. People do not just tap you on the shoulder while you are having sex with your spouse and ask to cut in. That would be considered rude. My wife was worried about that and it never happened. People want to know the person they plan to have sex with. At least for 30 minutes or more. One time I did see a single guy get accosted by a woman. It was fun to watch. He got what he came to hedo for but I think he was a bit embarrassed about being on display. We were very fortunate to meet up with some great people. In fact we met with this one couple one night had sex with them and several other couples and had to say goodbye the next day. But we really made a connection and hope to see them more even though they are across the country. Email is a good thing.

Now do you have to do all this evil wicked sex stuff. Not at all. One day we met this woman that was by her self and a bit out of sorts because she missed her husband who had to stay home with their daughter. We invited her to dinner and had an amazing time talking about sci fi/fantasy novels. We met another couple that just likes to be nude and does not get into the public sex. They were great and we had a blast talking to them.

Basically what we came away with is the rumors are true if you want to be part of it. One can certainly get very wild at hedo. On the other hand you can be prudish too. There are not requirements either way and people are very tolerant.

A few other things to note. We did have the displeasure of dealing with some Vinnies. The biggest problem was one guy that we named creepy guy. Creepy guy would stay on the prude side and drink all day and then come to the nude side and grope and otherwise be inappropriate to the women there. We had to eject him twice from the nude hot tub. So words of warning do not leave your women totally unattended. The one time I went for drinks before we knew creepy guy was creepy another guy who was with his wife was looking out for my wife. That is an important thing to know. People look out for each other. The thing is you cannot always count on it.

The amenities were ok. We were in the 200 block by the quad pool. Oh. Important note. The quad hot tub is a great place to check out. Late at night when the nude hot tub is too hot, cold, crowded and the single guys are too numerous go hang out at the quad. Many times we met up with friends there. We even had some fun, as in sex with another couple. There is plenty of good sex to watch if you are a voyeur. My wife loves watching! Just be respectful and don’t just stare the whole time. I mention this because a Hedo veteran that we met up with was surprised to find out that anything was going on in the quad hot tub.

We loved out trip and first timers I would say that you make sure your relationship is sound and you talk about the possibility of having sex with others or with each other in public. It is not a big deal and tons of fun. My wife and I had some of the most amazing sex between each other just thinking of the things we did and saw.

One more thing. Guys if you are not hung like a horse do not fret. I am average not huge but not small either but in the great out doors what I have tries to hide. No one cares! Several of the guys we were hanging out with should be doing porn movies but their wifes were just as interested in me.

One more thing. I can have sex for hours with my wife but for some reason I had real trouble with other people present. I could not get it up. Now I will disclaim that I was tired and that my wife thought I was 18 again and made me perform 5 times during the day. But the truth is both the guys and the girls were totally cool about it and just wanted to help. Well the guys offered Viagra and shared that sometimes it happens. The girls tried to help using more direct methods. The thing that made it all ok was that I was honest and not concerned. It was frustrating to not be ready when around other women, but my wife and I had great sex and all the attention felt good no matter that I did not get to, lets say, finish. So if you find yourself in the same unfortunate situation. Smile and let it out in the open and just don’t worry about it. It is hard to do but better for you if you do. Besides I am good at other things. Maybe that is why the girls were ok with me?