What do you tell people about your vacation???

**S&Tliketoparty** · 05-27-2011, 10:26 PM

Originally Posted by sabinaandscott

My favorite experience was sitting in the dentist chair a few years ago getting my teeth cleaned and discussing vacation. I kept it bland just saying Jamaica when she asked "2 or 3?"...of course a few guffaws later I admitted 3...I asked about her question and she said that only Hedo people would know the answer...to anyone else she would expand the explanation is asked "2 or 3 what"? and she'd say "1nd or 3rd trip to Jamaica?"
Of course this worked much better when both were still open. I suppose you could still ask "2?" and if they give you a blank look expand and say "2 times?" and no-one would really know what your talking about unless they already "Knew"!!

LOL, we actually had a similar experience with some of our, so we thought, vanilla friends. We were at a birthday party for their daughter and were chatting about our summer plans. We mentioned that we were going to a couples resort in Jamaica and she responded with "Oh like Hedonism II?, We know ALL about THAT place" I about choked on my wine - needless to say that gave away our vacation plans.

**spankme422** · 05-28-2011, 12:52 AM

I just told people exactly where we were going. parents, friends. coworkers we dont care. But what the others have said is right . there are alot of folks that have no idea what hedo even is....

**scott-n-bobbi** · 05-28-2011, 06:28 AM

It depends on alot of factors and everyone's situation is different. Family thinks we went to Breezes, some friends know the truth.
It could depend on your profession, where you live or who your telling. Grandma might prefer to hear breezes to save a heart attack
but close friends don't care. If you live in a small town and everyone knows everyone elses business and shun this type of activity well
you have to decide. After all....it's your vacation, your life and you know the people and situation in your life better than anyone.

**Buck** · 05-28-2011, 09:44 AM

My parents new where we were as they were here in the early 90s her parents hell no we were at breezes ur friends we were in negril. We tld like 3 couples where we really were. Our town isnt small but we are known by many and it could hurt my buisness.

**sheercliff15** · 05-28-2011, 05:23 PM

Last summer, I wore my bright Hedonism II T-shirt to the company picnic. Is that bad?

Cliff

**mac_r_a** · 05-28-2011, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by sheercliff15

Last summer, I wore my bright Hedonism II T-shirt to the company picnic. Is that bad?

Cliff

Love it!!! I wore my hedo tank top and a sarong as a skirt to an outdoor concert with about 40,000 people. I was at the front of the fence where chairs are allowed in the drinking section and by the end of the afternoon I ended up flashing the whole crowd, lol. I got a lot of looks before that with the shirt, but even more afterwards. I just can't be let out in crowds where drinks are involved, lol

**SouthernFried** · 05-28-2011, 08:46 PM

everyone knows we go to a clothing optional resort and many know about our involvement in the lifestyle-don't think grandpa needs to hear that part

Dropped off donation of toiletries to local church once for flood victims they were sheltering--- guess my act of kindness saved me from erupting into flames right there in the sanctuary-- got back in my truck and realized I was wearing Hedo tank top !

**sheercliff15** · 05-29-2011, 05:24 AM

Originally Posted by SouthernFried

Dropped off donation of toiletries to local church once for flood victims they were sheltering--- guess my act of kindness saved me from erupting into flames right there in the sanctuary-- got back in my truck and realized I was wearing Hedo tank top !

"We 'ppreciate your donation — sanctuary much."

**ScubaSteve** · 06-03-2011, 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by SouthernFried

everyone knows we go to a clothing optional resort and many know about our involvement in the lifestyle-don't think grandpa needs to hear that part

Dropped off donation of toiletries to local church once for flood victims they were sheltering--- guess my act of kindness saved me from erupting into flames right there in the sanctuary-- got back in my truck and realized I was wearing Hedo tank top !

As the Baptismal font started to bubble.....

**ScubaSteve** · 06-03-2011, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by hedo2012

My girlfriend and I have briefly entertained the thought of a vacation spot like this but what I wonder about is what do we tell people about our vacation? Do we say we went somewhere else more tame? We're in our mid 20's and I don't think either of us want to explain to our parents/relatives/unadventurous friends what hedonism II is after they google it and come to the false conclusion that it's a swingers club.

I usually just say diving.
If they continue to ask where in Jamaica, I say Negril,
If they ask which resort, I say that it is Sandals.

Its the ones that look at you funny with that knowing smirk that makes me wonder.

Cheers

**pornstar1360** · 06-03-2011, 05:07 PM

been going to Sandal's Runaway Bay for years......now its Sandal's Negril.

**pornstar1360** · 06-04-2011, 06:20 AM

Oops did I say Sandals? I meant Breezes, you know, the place next door to that crazy orgy, sex, swinger place! lol

**Justeasy** · 06-04-2011, 03:44 PM

No problem for us. Hedo is just a small part of our Jamaican vacation, so we just tell them all about the other locations we stay.

**siwel1976** · 06-04-2011, 03:55 PM

We have always said Sandals. BTW has anyone ever been there?

**Bill lawrence** · 06-04-2011, 04:32 PM

Superclubs Negril and they never ask for anymore but will ask to see photos. We have very few from our beach walk in front of Sandals, Breezes, Beaches, Rick's Cafe etc.