I would caution that you label the group due to the act of one couple. I can almost promise that EVERY group has someone or a couple or couples who have crossed the line at one time or another due to the moment, the excess of alcohol, etc... People are people and sometimes things just happen and it's most unfortunate. You have to remember, this isn't any different than real life. If you were singles at a bar you're going to run into a douchie guy, or the drunk girl just flirting for drinks, etc... The same thing applies here. Booze and sex, whether straight, single, swinger or not, don't always leave to the best behavior for some. Like a guy hitting on your wife at a bar, if being polite in rebuffing doesn't work, be more stern, move away and go on. Try not to dwell on that experience much. Swinging is like dating in the sense that you're going to have good experiences, bad experiences, awesome experiences and eh experiences. So don't get too high or too low on any of them. Take what the two of you want out of the experience and move on to the next one!
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