Thinking about going to HEDO alone

**d415** · 03-15-2012, 07:00 PM

I'm a 23 year old female who just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm looking for a good time. I've traveled alone, but want to try something new and have a guaranteed good time. I'm not a swinger but do feel like I want to explore my boundaries further- and I know my friends would not be down. I'm confident, secure with my body and have a hedo side to me I've yet to explore. It looks like the majority of people going to these resorts are for couples, would it be okay if I came by myself...are people generally friendly? When is a good time to go? I'm looking to go in the next few months...the sooner the better.

**mac_r_a** · 03-15-2012, 07:09 PM

Single gals are very welcome at Hedo. They are well protected by everyone and you are pretty much guaranteed a good time. That doens't mean you won't be hit on (although it will happen), but it is a great place to build your confidence and get over you ex. Plus he will be pissed when he find out, lol

We are there April 28 to May 5, 6 more weeks!!! We are a group through Wild Women Vacations which sounds like you would fit in perfectly. There are several single women going that week, so you wouldn't be alone!!!! Let me know if I can be of any assistance!!

**phillygirl22** · 03-15-2012, 07:10 PM

Yes, at Hedo you would be very welcome!
It costs 50% more to stay alone in your room. They have a program called "single share" that potentially places you in a room with another solo traveling female. That is something to consider.
Once there, head on over to the nude side, pull up to the bar, order a drink and introduce yourself to the person next to you. Next thing you know, you'll be chatting with a group of your new friends.
Same at meals: grab your food and walk to a table and ask to sit with them!
People are super friendly and social, so you'll have no problem!

**mac_r_a** · 03-15-2012, 07:14 PM

Very well said Phillygirl22 - it is a very social place and you will never have to worry about being alone or feeling alone. And you have a good chance of getting a room to yourself if you get a single share, if you do have to share, it will be with another women and the beds split up into 2 singles. You can hang a sock on the door if you are getting action!!!!

**aphrodisiac** · 03-15-2012, 07:29 PM

You will be more than welcome at Hedo, especially if you're confident and open-minded. Search the forum and find a group that seems to have what you're looking for, book your hotel and airfare and don't look back!

**Nasteenik** · 03-15-2012, 07:34 PM

Hey D415, I'm going this April as a single. I won't say alone anymore because I have met some really cool folks on this site. I've been to Hedo with a few people I know but this will be my first time traveling there alone. Come on down during April 28-May5 the :-) I'm going with Wild Women Vacation and Hedo Switch Hitters. I can't wait.

**HedoIIIlover** · 03-15-2012, 07:36 PM

Just sent you a message on your profile page with a link to use for great info along with what we can give you here.

**Black Vulcan** · 03-15-2012, 08:00 PM

Hedo is a great place for singles.....guys and girls. It is safe to say that it is much easier for girls than guys. Everytime I have been to Hedo there are alot of singles women. As a matter of fact I met my wife there when she was there by herself and of course I was a single guy! Not to mention six years later we are stronger than ever. I know you are not going to met a mate, neither were we, but it happen!!

We have a few single ladies coming with our group in April so you should not worry about a thing. Singles ladies are "praised" at Hedo. Chances are you could be a Queen for a week....or how ever long you decide to stay!!

Good Luck
Hit me up if you need more info

Moe

**Black Vulcan** · 03-15-2012, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by Nasteenik

Hey D415, I'm going this April as a single. I won't say alone anymore because I have met some really cool folks on this site. I've been to Hedo with a few people I know but this will be my first time traveling there alone. Come on down during April 28-May5 the :-) I'm going with Wild Women Vacation and Hedo Switch Hitters. I can't wait.

I thought you were coming for part of our week?? Damn Nasteenik!!!!!!!

LOL

Moe

**The Travel Slut** · 03-15-2012, 08:51 PM

I would echo everyone's sentiments and can confirm the fun that singles can have based on past experiences with member of our group/krewe. I would also confirm that you should seek a compatible group so that you always have some people you know or can start a day/night with and then see where the activity(s) take you.

We currently have 3 single females and 4 single males in our group (the females are sharing a room) and we will probably adopt a few along the way as we have the past 5 years.

It's all good, it's all fun. :-)

**CeeNCee** · 03-15-2012, 08:58 PM

Lol, sorry, but we get to be graced with her presence! Yay!

Originally Posted by Black Vulcan

I thought you were coming for part of our week?? Damn Nasteenik!!!!!!!

LOL

Moe

**Black Vulcan** · 03-15-2012, 09:02 PM

Originally Posted by CeeNCee

Lol, sorry, but we get to be graced with her presence! Yay!

Damn! Damn! Damn!!!!

**keystone** · 03-15-2012, 10:02 PM

Late June is always a fun time to go !

**CopNkitten** · 03-15-2012, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by CeeNCee

Lol, sorry, but we get to be graced with her presence! Yay!

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**ScubaSteve** · 03-15-2012, 11:14 PM

Originally Posted by d415

I'm a 23 year old female who just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm looking for a good time. I've traveled alone, but want to try something new and have a guaranteed good time. I'm not a swinger but do feel like I want to explore my boundaries further- and I know my friends would not be down. I'm confident, secure with my body and have a hedo side to me I've yet to explore. It looks like the majority of people going to these resorts are for couples, would it be okay if I came by myself...are people generally friendly? When is a good time to go? I'm looking to go in the next few months...the sooner the better.

Go for it.
Lots of singles go.
I think you will be glad you did.

Cheers