Hello, world,
We're a mid-to-late 30s open-minded couple. We aren't swingers but the idea isn't exactly a taboo subject for us.
Recently, we've been discussing an adult vacation but we aren't sure if our ideal location actually exists. We have found a few resorts and cruises that have peaked out interest, plus Kinky Copenhagen seems really fun but nothing has been perfect.
Personally, I'm sold on Hedo II but it doesn't quite meet what she wants.
I'll explain.
What I'm looking for is a sexually-charged place yet offers the opportunity to go tame for a few hours. I'm open to pretty much whatever, including PDA. Plus, it seems to be more accepting of all body types whereas some of the other resorts give me vibes like they cater to the Ken and Barbies of the world.
She's looking for something that I can best explain as the old movie Exit to Eden, minus the murder investigation.
The long-short is that she wants a place that caters to a sexually-charged vacation (which pretty much all offer) but she also wants to take a "What happens in "Vegas" stays in "Vegas" attitude and be able to fulfill any fantasy that strikes her while we are there. Plus, she wants some mild BDSM to be thrown in. Basically, if she decides she wants a threesome, she can make it happen on demand. A foursome or moresome? Same thing. Throw on a leather suit and break out the handcuffs? Want to just drop where you are and go at it like animals without a care of who can see? Bring it on.
For her, it boils down to she doesn't want to plan anything in advance and wants to experience whatever pleasure she desires at that moment.
Hedo II (or any "swinger" vacation) turns her off because while she is a social bug she doesn't want to have to meet people, engage in conversation for two hours and only then, if things click, head to the bedroom.
She realizes this is fantasy and some compromise would be necessary but does anyone have any advice on where to look? We're leaning right now, like I said, toward Desire or Bliss Cruise.
Thanks in advance
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