My wife and I are wanting to plan a trip for May 2016. We have been to several resorts before, including couples only resorts but never a clothing optional.
I have looked around and it seems like the clothing optional choices are all or nothing. Hedo sounds like it would be pretty intimidating for us. We are not swingers and don't want to spend our entire trip naked.
What we are looking for the following, and I already assume we will have to settle in some areas.
1) great food, we enjoy nice sit down dinners with a bottle of wine. It is actually towards the top priorities for my wife. If we need to go off the resort once or twice for this it is okay.
2) beautiful pools, we normally don't spend too much time on the actual beach.
3) good service
4) fun social groups, we would like to socialize and have been to really nice places before where it seemed out of place to even bother other guests. We loved the resort, service and food but the social or party aspect was non existent.
5) freedom to be topless for the wife and not be the only one. I get that at some of these resorts we will almost be encouraged to be completely nude at some points which we will be okay with but we don't want to be nude all day every day.
6) lastly romance/sexual. We want an atmosphere and experience/entertainment that is sexual for us to have fun with each other. We are okay with others wanting to be more wild with other couples but that isn't something we are looking for. I read up on desire and I liked how activities and entertainment seemed to be focused on heightening your sexual expetience with your partner.
We are 30 and 29 if that makes a difference. I know we will both be a little uncomfortable at a clothing optional resort at first but we are willing to get over it.
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