I guess maybe I don't understand the true spirit of hedo. This was only our first trip to hedo and our second to a lifestyle resort. Our first trip was to Desire, which is clothing optional throughout and definitely my preference. I don't really have a problem with being nude, but I have a problem with being told I have to do something I may not want to do at the time. I did get nude at desire but I don't think I ever did at hedo. To me, these vacations are about freedom and HAVING to do something, takes away that freedom. As I said before, when I choose to be nude, it's about me, not anyone else, so I don't care if anyone else is nude or clothed. I don't understand why anyone else would, but if they did and if they had expressed that to me, I would have either removed the offending few inches of material or left the area. The reason we went to the nude side, is because that is where everyone was, not because we wanted to gawk or anything. As for the being nude in the pool/hottub...I'm sure that is mostly psychological, but it just isn't something I would be comfortable doing. It seems odd to me, that people take such offense to someone wearing a tiny thong, but they do not seem to mind pictures being taken in the nude areas or people having sex...both of which are also against the rules and yet, happen all the time.
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