lifestyler

[the_hedonist_69]

how does one become a lifestyler.is there a ritual that one has to go through at hedo to become one.just curious

the hedonist 69

[CrazdWeasels]

After your third public blow-job (giving or receiving) at Hedo with a non-SO, we teach you the secret handshake.

John & Carol

[CopNkitten]

WTF we have been in the lifestyle for years and never learned the "secret handshake". Maybe cause we usually go for something other than their hands, roflmao.
Paul....

[Triplethefun]

is really whatever you want it to be to express your sexual freedoms.

the most common grouping is couples softswapping (oral, toys, g/g). some people are comfortable doing hard swap - which is trading partners, either in the same room or in different rooms.

we have people in our group who are voyeurs and others who are exhibitionists, but they don't swap in any fashion. They just really like being able to express themselves freely. and live sex is so much better than porn! LOL

any thoughts on what you'd like?

[rugby]

What is g/g? just trying to stay current with the lingo.

[EHB]

Girl/Girl

[CopNkitten]

Girls and Goats
Sick but to each their own....

[HedoJoe]

Paul, don't you remember the secret handshake? It is when a girl walks up to a guy she doesn't know, grabs his cock, gives it a shake and says "Hello! Who do you do?"

[CopNkitten]

Oooohhh is that what that is, lol.
Hey Joe LTNS, I sent you a PM last week, did ya get it?
Paul....

[lovingcpl]

lol....its an attitude...nothing more, nothing less.

[the_hedonist_69]

you guys are funny. handshakes and all. hilarious

[Notsureyet]

Paul, don't you remember the secret handshake? It is when a girl walks up to a guy she doesn't know, grabs his cock, gives it a shake and says "Hello! Who do you do?"

Paul just says he doesn't remember so more women will do it for him.

Got to love a professional in action.

Peter

[the_hedonist_69]

cop n kitten i put in a request to join your yahoo group. its uptown_cj@yahoo.com. hope for approval.

[gary and marcie]

Is there alot of light swinging that goes on or is the majority full swinging and does this happen in public or private

[sabinaandscott]

every one has their own boundaries and rules....a quick discussion of same is all thats needed...Some are full swing, some are soft and others are exhibitionists or voyeurs and don't "play" at all...it depends, and that doesn't mean that a "full swing" couple will not "play" with a soft swing couple... It's all about respect and knowing what is "expected" before it become a "problem" is all important....so talk about what your expectations are before anything happens and no-one will be dissappointed or upset! It's all about openess and fun! no-one should end up with "hurt" feelings". As to your question...we have seen it all, full swap to soft swap in public...also alot more discreet people.