Ok. I know this has been widely discussed in the past, but I also know it is something we (newbie guys) can’t not think about.
I also know that everyone who’s been to Hedo says that we (guys) don’t have to worry about unwanted erections, because they will most likely happen during the first few hours of the first day, and then we’ll get used to seeing all those naked bodies around, and won’t think of them in a sexual context, which will result in that erection to vanish.
HOWEVER, the thing is that if I wanted to play volleyball, drink beer, or sit at a bar and talk with a group of friends, I would stay in my hometown, and not travel half way around the world for it.
What I mean is that the reason for me to be going to Hedo, is to be in a sexually enhanced environment, with lots of naked people around, and during this week or so, enjoy all our (mine and my wife’s) sexuality as much as possible. So, when I’m at the pool for an instance, talking to a group of people who happen to be all naked, including many women, it will have (at least for me) a sexual conotation. I will have sexual thoughts in the back of my mind.
This means that I most likely (and God help me so) have an erection very often while at the pool, while with a group of people, while talking to another couple, etc. I want to be sexually charged, and this means, having an erection. Heck, if I wanted to simply hang around a bunch of nice people in a pool, I woul go to Wet’n’Wild or to a Disney World water park.
So, all above said, here are the questions:
- If I were at the pool with a group of people and my wife, and had an erection, would this offend the women?
- How about their husbands?
- What if it were me and my wife with another couple? Would the husband feel offended?
- Would it be rude if my wife decided to “manually take care” of mr. Happy on site, and maybe lay it to rest for an hour or so? Or in this situation, should we go to a more secluded are (our room?) and then back to our group of friends, or couple?
- I know hat after the sun goes down, almost everything is allowed at the hot tub / pool area. How about during the day? Is sexual activity (with or without intercourse) allowed in the pool/spa? What about on the lounge chairs around it?
- When having my dear erection while talking to a group of people or couple, should I try to hide it, or just enjoy it to the fullest?
- What if I want to go to the bar , and have an erection? Is it unpolite or rude?
- Altough I’ve read it’s allowed, do people actually go to/from their rooms to the pool area already naked, or there is some kind or unwritten rule that says you shouldn’t? Does this actually happen?
- I’ve bought my wife (a 34, very gorgeous, well fit, great body woman) lot of extremelly sexy and daring lingerie, mostly with uncover crotch, G-string, absolutelly transparent (well, you get the idea). We were thinking of having it worn in the evenings to the club, one different every evening. Is it too much to get in the disco like this, or should she wear it under something else, and loose the “else” as it goes along?
- The idea of these kind of clothes, is to make it easy for us to have sex when she’s wearing it (at the disco). Is it allowed? Does it happen (often)?
- As for public restrooms, considering that everyone is naked already, are they unisex? Could we slip off to a public restroom and “do it” over there (it’s always been one of our fantasies, which we never had the guts to do)?
I hope I get MANY COMMENTS on the above.
Thanks.
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