masterbation

[luv2bbare]

As a single heterosexual male contemplating a Hedonism vacation, I was wondering just exactly what past attenders mean when they say that activity heats up in the hot tubs starting around mid-night. I'm trying to get a visual of the sexual activities. If you are a single male, properly behaving yourself, not too drunk, with a good attitude and friendly manner, will you actually find single women to have sex with in front of others in the hot tub? If no single women are present, do single heterosexual men masterbate while watching others having sex or is this type of activity shunned?

Do the heterosexual men, behaving themselves, increase their chances of being invited to join in group sex if they start by masterbating?

Also, what are the mornings like at the resorts. Sex in the morning, just as you wake up, is fantastic. Do people frolic sexually in the hot tubs in the mornings?

[toohorny]

If you are a single male, properly behaving yourself, not too drunk and with a good attitude and friendly manner you MIGHT find a couple or a single female to have sex with. If you go thinking you are going to get laid, there is a very good chance that you will be dissapointed with your trip. If you go to have fun, relax and party you will have a good trip. Although sex does happen at hedo, hedo is not a sex resort.

Yes, jerking off in public would be shunned.

The mornings are great at hedo, a typical day for us would be wake up around 8, grab some breakfast and talk to some friends. Head out diving around 9:30 and get to the nude pool around 11:00. If we do have sex it is NOT at the hot tub....I am pretty sure the pool cleaners would not appreciate it...lol. Once again, Hedo is not a sex resort.

[C&L]

If you mean 4 in the morning before they went to bed, yes, if you mean just after sleep, not until noon or later. Single guys by themselves have it tough unless; they are extreamly good looking, well endowed or both. Masterbating around the group is frowned upon and will not only not get you invited in on the fun but may get you shuned. Couples and single woman rule, single guys, not so much. If you are attractive to someone there they will let you know, jerking yourself off will not win you any friends.

[mac_r_a]

I once read a great line on here regarding single males - if you can't go to a regular bar and pick up, then you are not going to be able to pick up at Hedo as it is even more difficult to pick up there as a single guy. (I have not been there yet, first trip in 9 weeks, however I am just passing on my knowledge from what I have read)

[Flyboy]

I'm trying to get a visual of the sexual activities... Do the heterosexual men increase their chances... if they start masterbating?

No. A guy beating off watching couples will not win points.

This post is not too far off from the one other you did. http://www.4hedonism.com/forums/showthread.php?t=9058 Hedo is not a sex resort. On the other hand, we love single guys and frequently invite them in as a couple. You just have to be patient understand what the resort truly is--mostly monogomous couples, some swingers, and few singles.

[woodylynn]

honestly, meet the people during the day. be the friendly not too drunk guy and you will probably hang out with a fun couple from dinner, through the piano bar, out to the disco, and then hopefully the jacuzzi. single guys in the jacuzzi creep the ladies out. watch their men move around to create walls between them and the single guys... sorta like a discovery channel show about lions but with fewer flies.

[partyplayerdog]

I went to HEDO and will go back this summer. I did not see any single guy jerking off so If I were you, I'd stay away from it buddy. Now if you must jerk off, just go back to your room and watch some free porn which the resosrt offers at no additional cost. That will help you blow off some steam.

[Moorerotic]

single guys in the jacuzzi creep the ladies out. watch their men move around to create walls between them and the single guys... sorta like a discovery channel show about lions but with fewer flies.

That is so well put!

My rule during my first trip to Hedo as a single guy was only go to the hot tub at night if invited by a couple or single female. The quad and disco were actually FAR more welcoming areas for a single guys.

[Patience]

On the practical side, there is no jerking off in the hot tub in the morning because that is when they drain it and clean it.

[nekidnurse]

Nice analogy Woody. I honestly think you could build an award winning thesis on the unique social diversity found at Hedo. It may be that post like yours are closest we'll ever see to that. You might say we're exposing more than our skin.